As promised, here’s the first stolen aphorism from St. Josemaria Escriva. I doubt he’ll mind.
“You give me the impression you are carrying your heart in your hands, as if you were offering goods for sale. Who wants it? If it doesn’t appeal to anyone, you’ll decide to give it to God. Do you think that’s how the saints acted?”
Got me on that one. That’s what I do most of the time. Should be more like I offer it to God, and see if he keeps it or gives it to someone else.